‘This Guy Sounds Like a Creep’: Reddit Blasts Stay-at-Home Mom Comments in viral AITAH Post
The internet is ablaze over yet another jaw-dropping Reddit “Am I the A**hole” (AITAH) post, and this time, it’s serving us all a hearty dose of why-don’t-men-mind-their-own-business. A 22-year-old woman shared a story about her sister’s boyfriend and his bizarre obsession with her life choices, and I have thoughts.
This guy is WILD
The original poster (OP) has an older sister who loves being a stay-at-home mom and wife, which is great, for her. OP, on the other hand, has zero interest in following that path. Enter the sister’s boyfriend (SB), a 27-year-old man who just cannot wrap his head around the concept that not all women dream of being dependent on a man—cue eye roll.
Things kicked off when SB decided it was his mission to nudge OP toward “settling down” with one of his friends who conveniently happens to want a stay-at-home wife. OP shut that down real quick, explaining that she’s still recovering from trust issues after her ex cheated on her. A reasonable boundary, right? Not to SB. Instead, he’s baffled that OP isn’t ready to jump into another relationship. Because, of course, a man’s timeline should dictate her emotional recovery.
Spiraling
The plot thickened when SB asked OP if she wanted to be a stay-at-home wife and mother. OP, in her polite-but-firm manner, said no, a perfectly valid answer. But instead of respecting her choice, SB got defensive. “Not all men are the same,” he argued, which, by the way, is classic deflection. OP pointed out that not all women want the same things either, and honestly, mic drop.
Things spiraled further when SB overheard OP discussing her plans to get an IUD with her sisters. That’s when he decided to take his uninvited opinions up a notch, declaring that OP was “ruining God’s plan” by preventing herself from becoming a mom. Sir, take several seats. OP told him off and left his house, but the drama didn’t end there. Her sister (yes, the one dating SB) later demanded an apology and suggested OP reconsider her decision about the IUD. To which OP rightly said, “Not everyone has that dream.”
Reddit responds
Needless to say, Reddit was not having any of SB’s nonsense. The top comments calling him out. As one user put it, “This guy sounds like a creep, who is he to dictate what you do with your life, your career, and your body? I hope your sister knows about this and supports you. NTA” And, oh yeah, it turns out her sister is pregnant with his kid and they aren’t married. The hypocrisy and audacity is astounding.
Another common theme in the comments was disbelief over his fixation on OP’s choices instead of his own. “He’s not really that “traditional”. He’s not married to the mother of his child.” one user asked. Great observation. The general consensus? SB’s behavior is both creepy and deeply misogynistic.
The bigger picture
This isn’t just about one overbearing man, it’s about a pattern that women everywhere recognize. The entitlement, the audacity, and the complete lack of boundaries. OP’s story struck a nerve because it’s a reminder of how often women’s autonomy is treated like a debate topic instead of a basic human right.
And let’s not ignore the glaring hypocrisy here. SB preaches about “God’s plan” but seems fine living in sin by his own standards. Plus, his fixation on OP’s body and reproductive choices is more than just inappropriate, it’s downright creepy. He doesn’t just want to control OP; he’s actively trying to guilt and shame her into conforming to his outdated worldview.
Family dynamics at play
It’s also worth noting that OP’s sister is enabling this behavior. Asking OP to apologize and abandon her plans to keep the peace is not just unfair, it’s toxic. Reddit users rallied behind OP for refusing to bow to the pressure. “You should be nervous to be in a room with him. Listen to your gut.” one commenter wrote. “It’s YOUR life, and you don’t owe anyone an explanation about your choices.” Amen to that.
There’s a recurring accusation in this story: that OP doesn’t respect stay-at-home moms. But OP’s actions show the exact opposite. She’s fully supportive of her sister’s choices, she just doesn’t want the same life for herself. Respect is a two-way street, and SB’s complete dismissal of OP’s desires shows he’s the one who’s lacking it.
The verdict
OP’s story is a reminder that we still have a long way to go when it comes to respecting women’s autonomy. Whether it’s a stranger, a boyfriend, or even family, no one has the right to dictate what a woman does with her body or her life. SB’s behavior is a masterclass in what not to do, and if this Reddit post is anything to go by, he’ll be internet infamous for all the wrong reasons.
So, to OP, keep standing your ground. And to SB: maybe worry less about God’s plan for OP and more about getting your own house in order. Reddit has spoken, and the verdict is clear, you’re the real a**hole here.
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