Rihanna and A$AP Rocky smile into the camera at the MET Gala

Men, Listen To A$AP Rocky: Moisturizing Isn’t a Gendered Activity

Unless it’s called “Cool Metal,” “Sports Blast,” or “Anarchy” (and yes those are actual Axe body spray names), a large portion of straight cis men seem to feel it’s unmanly to have clean skin, silky hair, and chap-free lips. Enter A$AP Rocky.

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The rapper has come out with a lip balm under Rihanna’s famed beauty line Fenty Beauty, aiming to end the plague of men with dry lips who cannot be bothered with putting on a little smudge of something healing. Whether it’s because they genuinely feel skin hydration and smooth lips undercut their masculinity or because male skin care has simply never been on their radar as a possibility, a lot of men don’t have even a basic skincare regimen, and don’t know where to start with one.

Thankfully, A$AP and Rihanna are here to help.

The balm, called Lux Balm, retails for a whopping $16! The product description on the Fenty Beauty site reads:

“Keep talkin’ your s***—just make sure you do it with soft, smooth lips. This juicy, Barbados Cherry-powered lip balm brings dry, chapped lips back to life with instant hydration. Sleek and discreet, it’s mess-free and slips effortlessly into any pocket.”

To announce the collab, Fenty released a short video featuring the rapper which is now making the rounds on TikTok.

@fentybeauty

#LuxBalm up in @A$AP Rocky’s palm, new collab with our fave mom @Rihanna ?♥️ This juicy, Barbados Cherry-powered lip balm packed with vitamin E + shea butter brings dry lips back to life with instant hydration ? It’s slim, slick n easily slips into your pocket, so you can keep it on you wherever you go ☝? Cop it now at @sephora, @sephoracanada, #SephoraxKohls at @Kohl’s + the #fentyskin site ?

♬ original sound – Fenty Beauty

Though it’s great that we are getting more marketing for male lip care, the short rap still includes the gender-binary-reinforcing line, “Nah b***h this ain’t lip gloss, lip balm up in my palm.” Gloss is just a step too far for them at this point.

Regardless, based on some of the TikToks that have been appearing since its release, it appears that men have been running to the stores to get their hands on some balm and some balm on their lips.

This TikTok user points out just how easily men have been influenced by A$AP Rocky, crying out, “For years we’ve been telling men to ‘go moisturize your lips, it’s not that bad.'” A$AP drops one video and “that’s all it took.”

@kneeyolewinsky

love you @Fenty Beauty ? ending toxic masculinity one A$AP campaign at a time #fentybeauty #rihanna #asaprocky #luxelipbalm

♬ original sound – neo.

Another user asks, “Why did it take A$AP Rocky jumping on a Fenty ad for men to decide they don’t want to have chapped lips anymore?”

@nayyeeohhhmeee

also all the videos ive seen of men simply applying lip balm like theyre doing something new makes me laugh ? #fentybeauty #asaprocky #lipbalm

♬ original sound – naomi el

This user’s take makes out that perhaps Rihanna was dropping a subtle hint to her partner A$AP by inviting him to collab on the lip balm. Honestly, if that’s true then well done Rihanna, well done you devious queen. We have you to thank for all the people out there kissing men with now wonderfully hydrated lips.

@imcodyjacob

What’s worse finding his side chick’s aquafor or your man’s Fenty #rihanna #fentybeauty #asaprocky #lipbalm #fentylips #drunkelephant #sephora

♬ original sound – Cody Jacob ?

Another user wonders why anyone would pay $16 for the product when you can steal your significant other’s (*sigh* just like mine does).

@dboonsterrr

My dog wanted a little fenty lip balm too for his chapped nose ? #asaprocky #fentylipbalm #rihanna

♬ original sound – Fenty Beauty

However you want to go about getting those men so averse to self-care to actually start taking care of themselves, I am all for it.

(featured image: Jeff Kravitz/FilmMagic)


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Laura Pollacco (she/her) is a contributing writer here at The Mary Sue, having written for digital media since 2022 and has a keen interest in all things Marvel, Lord of the Rings, and anime. She has worked for various publications including We Got This Covered, but much of her work can be found gracing the pages of print and online publications in Japan, where she resides. Outside of writing she treads the boards as an actor, is a portrait and documentary photographer, and takes the little free time left to explore Japan.